In Chronological Order

2002- Boy lives in one state, girl lives in another. Boy calls girl, they talk about nothing and everything. Several more calls happen. Boy and girl spend some time together. Boy and girl fall in love. Boy proposes to girl in an airport. Girl says yes.

2003- Girl moves to same state as boy. Boy and girl get married one really cold April day. Boy and girl are beyond happy. Girl sees a tiny little puppy and says "pretty please", boy sees puppy eyes and says yes.

2004- Puppy has a rival for boy and girl's affection when new baby girl comes along. Girl is pretty certain the people at the hospital are crazy to let her go home with a baby. Boy goes back to school.

2005- Boy and girl and new baby girl and not so tiny puppy move to a bigger house and are sure they'll never be able to use all the empty space.

2006- Boy and girl get a bit of a surprise when baby #2 is actually #2 and #3. Girl is now certain the people at the hospital won't let her go home with 2 babies. They do.

2007- Boy finishes school. Girl is very grateful to have a husband home in the evenings.

2008- Girl discovers her secret desire to run a marathon. Boy tells her to go for it and is now alone with three small children most Saturday mornings while girl runs. Girl runs marathon and swears to never participate in that kind of nonsense ever again. Boy is grateful to have a wife that can again walk up stairs without crying.

2009- Baby #4 comes along bringing the total to 2 boys and 2 girls. Those people at the hospital let girl take that baby home despite her serious doubts.

2010- Girl plans a really long road trip. Boy has doubts but goes along with yet another one of her crazy ideas. Girl begins to have doubts but she's made the plans and is stuck. Boy and girl pack the kids in the car and take off. Really long road trip ends up being lots of fun. Girl also struggles with untreated postpartum depression, that's a long uphill battle but eventually everyone survives.

2011- Girl decides it's time for her to go back to school and finish what she never really started.  Boy also decides to go back to school and get his Masters degree. That big house that seemed so empty is actually bursting at the seams.

2012- Girl thinks that life is kinda boring and that they need to mix things up a little.  So kids start ballet. Some of them play baseball. All of them swim. Girl wonders what she was thinking. Boy keeps going to school like the genius he is. Boy and girl dream about spending time together not doing homework. Girl also decides to run another marathon. This one was billed as "all downhill", she discovers the race directors were lying at about the 2 mile marker.

2013- Baby number #5 decides to finally join the fun. It's a beautiful little girl who is adored by all, she's a gift from above. Boy also discovers that his long time job is coming to an end. Together they decide to batten down the hatches and ride this storm out. Boy also graduates with a Masters degree and amazing grades. This is all while working and taking care of a growing family. Girl is in awe.

2014- A job takes a little while to finally come but they're okay because despite being unemployed they're happier than ever, the savings last just as long as they need to and all is well. New job arrives and brings many blessings. The things they have learned cause a major course correction.

2015- A brand new year brings new chances to change lives. It also brought heartache as we said goodbye to Doggie, she did more than her fair share of highchair crumb patrol and feet warming, we miss her everyday (not just because of the floor pick up, although it was one of the perks). Happily, the student loan debt is slowly but surely disappearing. All 5 kids are healthy and happy and well. Boy loves his job and looks forward to each day. Girl is still in school but is picking up the pace, big time. She has also finally decided on a career direction, when she grows up she wants to help other families in financial crisis. Boy and girl are more in love today than all those years ago.

The Jordan River Temple
where this all began 12 years ago

Yesterday was our 12th anniversary. We celebrated with the usual Sunday fun (scriptures gone missing, a baby who needed a nap, dinner with family), it was pretty great. It's also not anything that I could have dreamed of way back when we first got married but it's better than I had hoped. I love that husband of mine, he really is my better half. Everything good and wonderful in my life has come because of his love and support. And that's the truth.

Happy Friday!- Cinthya's Debt Free Scream

Every Friday we are going to share stories of ordinary people who have done extraordinary things with their lives and their finances. Most of the videos and stories will come from Dave Ramsey's youtube channel. Every time I watch these they keep me motivated and inspire me to keep going in this journey of life.

This lady is awesome!! When I first saw this it made me teary eyed because of the trials that she went through to get to where she is currently. She is definitely an inspiration to me and helps me to keep the perspective needed to keep going in our financial struggles as well as in life in general.

That is where I want to be in a few years. Watching this woman tell her story helps me have the hope that I need to keep moving forward on this rough journey. I feel that if she can do it with all of the challenges she faced then there is no reason for me to give up.

Wherever you are in your journey through life, whether you've been debt- free forever or you're just getting started, don't give up. Keep moving. When life knocks you down just keep getting back up. That's what matters, as long as you keep moving forward then you're going to be okay.

If you are interested here is more about Cinthya. Her story is incredible and I'm glad she was willing to share.

Pancakes and Perfection

I work out 6 days a week lifting heavy weights and/ or running. I don't ever drink soda or juice or energy drinks (gross), it's just water and an occasional glass of milk. I stay moving all day long and I'm pretty good about what I eat but you know what? I still eat pancakes. And muffins. And dessert. And lots of other things that aren't what some people would call "clean".

There are people that are much better eaters than I am, they can consistently make healthy choices and it works for them.

But not for me. I have found a place where I feel good, I'm making progress and I'm really happy with where I am right this moment. I'm good with the pancakes.



Greg and I have completely overhauled our finances and we are totally focused on our goals. There isn't any room in our thinking for splurges or unplanned expenses. It's working for us.

But it doesn't work for everyone. I didn't start out working out at this level. I've been building to it for years. We didn't become financial wizards overnight, okay actually we're not wizard level yet, I'm thinking apprentice... but whatever you call us, it has taken time. There have been a lot of times where it felt overwhelming and a little hopeless but we didn't stop looking forward.

I hope that the dedicated eaters among us don't judge me because I make and eat seriously good pancakes. I'm doing what works for me and my situation.

I don't ever want you, my reader friend to think that we're judging you because of your financial decisions. We are all in different places. What matters is that we keep working. Don't give up because you overspent last week. Don't stop trying to get control of your money. This is a process and it takes time.

I'll keep making tiny strides to eating a little better and you keep working on your money.

We'll get there.

Look out below!

We recently finished paying off our last Visa card. We had it for over a decade and finally are done with it and closed the account. At the start of this year we had 10 debts that we were working on and grinding out. I am happy to report as of today we have paid off 6 of those debts! What is more interesting is the amount that we have paid off so far for the year is over $10,000. WHAT!! 10k in 4 months how did you do that you ask? Well I will tell you because we like you and hope that you can gain some inspiration from us and change your debt story.

The method we are using is what is called the debt snowball. Just think in your mind about some nice thick snow lying on the ground and what happens to a small snowball as you roll it in that snow. What happens is the snow you are rolling it in starts to stick to it. Now think in your mind what would happen to the snowball if you had it rolling down a hill how fast it would grow.

That is the same type of thing that happens with your money when you list your debts smallest balance to largest on paper. First attack that smallest debt and throw all the money you can at it and pay the minimums on the rest of the debts until it is paid off. Once that is paid off then you focus on the next debt taking the minimum payment of that small debt you just paid off and adding it to the next largest debt and whatever money you can throw on that one. Then you keep going down the list until they are all paid off. The key to it is focus!


If you are feeling like you are out on a lake in a canoe without paddles when it comes to debt start small and focus on one thing at a time. Don't try and juggle 4 or 5 things at once it doesn't work well. For those who are finance geeks don't worry about interest rates on your debts just put focused intensity on one thing at a time and you will have success. Once you have success knocking out the small debt and achieving a victory it will give you momentum to keep going on to the bigger debts. The debt snowball is powerful and I know it works and it will work for you.

That feeling of getting rid of debt is addicting. We were so excited when we paid off that first debt, it just felt unreal! It just got better, every time we paid off another debt we just kept feeling more and more excited. When you pay off each debt in your debt snowball the feeling just magnifies and you start to feel less weight on your shoulders and it is AWESOME!!

PS- our grand total we have paid off since we have started this debt free journey is over $20,000, which just blows my mind.